The One
It means know thy self. I wanna tell you a little secret, being the one is just like being in love. No one needs to tell you you are in love, you just know it, through and through.
--The Oracle (played by Gloria Foster)
The Matrix
Today is request Thursday. I'm answering questions from the JADEDBLKMAN and RYAN CANTY. I promise to answer everyone else's questions in the future! Today's first question come from JADED:
Do you think that Common could be the one? Could it be that you both have an energy that's above sex and thta this could be come that you could really grow to love and have him love you? The laws of relationships states: you'll never know when you'll meet your next lover/soul mate...they will have the habit of popping up when you leaset expect it. Will you be ready?
Could COMMON (who is he?) be the One? I have to say I agree with the above quote by the Oracle. I think more people need to read that quote and take it to heart. Too often we go through life putting the cart before the horse. First, see if the horse can hold your weight. Then see if he can pull the cart. Life is about stages. I guess I just believe in taking my time.
COMMON could be the One. But then so could Rocka, Rod, or Shemar Moore. No one needs to tell you whether someone is the One. You know it through and through. Balls to bones. So instead of worrying whether COMMON is the One, I think I am going to focus on developing a friendship and a vibe with him. If he’s the One, the rest will fall into place.
RYAN CANTY got greedy and wanted to ask a thousand questions:
1. What happened to Hazelnut? Did you meet him or did you just drop him like a musty pair of 3 year old draws when Common called?
HAZELNUT. (who is he?) You are going to have to stay tuned to learn about him. I am not sure—but I think he is related to one of the many stories going on in my life. But I am not sure yet…
2. Fantasy Fucking: Who are the guys you fuck in your wet dreams? Why?
I don’t do a lot of fantasizing. I usually think about guys I have already been with. And the perfect sex we experienced. Some of the phrases they’ve said I repeat in my head over and over. But as far as guys I haven’t been with? There are these two prostitutes (male escorts I think about a lot). One I don’t want to name. The other’s name is TANK, or MR. TANK. He was a BLACK INCHES cover model in 2004 (April I think). If anyone knows about his website—or how to get in touch with him—please shoot me an email at sexandthe2ndcity@aol.com.
3. What is it about Common that keeps you so interested in him knowing that he does things that you dont like (smoking weed, etc.)? Is it the potential for mind blowing sex (or the teasing of that potential)?
What I like about COMMON? The prospect of good consistent around the corner sex with someone who can hold a decent conversation. The fact that he is affectionate as hell, good looking, clean, has big brown eyes, and a smile that just makes me get on brick is all bonus. And there's something about his nature that is sharing. I just get a good vibe from him.
4. What is one thing you regret about any of your past relationships? Do you have regrets about them at all?
I promise to answer this question later. This is just way too involved. But yes, THE SEX has had previous relationships. And yes, I have regrets.
5. What happened to the other men in your life (Marcus, James and Chris)? Still see them or not?
Great question.
MARCUS: (who is he?) I am still working on him. I see him in the hallway from time to time. I am going to get him. Just give me some time.
CHRIS: Did you read RETURN OF THE VAMP? I am still toying with him. But I still haven’t fucked him since the first time. So all you guys who said I said I was being an asshole with him—RELAX!
JAMES: Oh my goodness, BBBD JAMES. He and I still haven’t had sex. But there is a story behind it that I have been hesitant to tell the readers of THE SEX. Let’s just say that JAMES and I have seen each other about four times. And we will be seeing each other some more in the future. If he can get his act together...
--The Oracle (played by Gloria Foster)
The Matrix
Today is request Thursday. I'm answering questions from the JADEDBLKMAN and RYAN CANTY. I promise to answer everyone else's questions in the future! Today's first question come from JADED:
Do you think that Common could be the one? Could it be that you both have an energy that's above sex and thta this could be come that you could really grow to love and have him love you? The laws of relationships states: you'll never know when you'll meet your next lover/soul mate...they will have the habit of popping up when you leaset expect it. Will you be ready?
Could COMMON (who is he?) be the One? I have to say I agree with the above quote by the Oracle. I think more people need to read that quote and take it to heart. Too often we go through life putting the cart before the horse. First, see if the horse can hold your weight. Then see if he can pull the cart. Life is about stages. I guess I just believe in taking my time.
COMMON could be the One. But then so could Rocka, Rod, or Shemar Moore. No one needs to tell you whether someone is the One. You know it through and through. Balls to bones. So instead of worrying whether COMMON is the One, I think I am going to focus on developing a friendship and a vibe with him. If he’s the One, the rest will fall into place.
RYAN CANTY got greedy and wanted to ask a thousand questions:
1. What happened to Hazelnut? Did you meet him or did you just drop him like a musty pair of 3 year old draws when Common called?
HAZELNUT. (who is he?) You are going to have to stay tuned to learn about him. I am not sure—but I think he is related to one of the many stories going on in my life. But I am not sure yet…
2. Fantasy Fucking: Who are the guys you fuck in your wet dreams? Why?
I don’t do a lot of fantasizing. I usually think about guys I have already been with. And the perfect sex we experienced. Some of the phrases they’ve said I repeat in my head over and over. But as far as guys I haven’t been with? There are these two prostitutes (male escorts I think about a lot). One I don’t want to name. The other’s name is TANK, or MR. TANK. He was a BLACK INCHES cover model in 2004 (April I think). If anyone knows about his website—or how to get in touch with him—please shoot me an email at sexandthe2ndcity@aol.com.
3. What is it about Common that keeps you so interested in him knowing that he does things that you dont like (smoking weed, etc.)? Is it the potential for mind blowing sex (or the teasing of that potential)?
What I like about COMMON? The prospect of good consistent around the corner sex with someone who can hold a decent conversation. The fact that he is affectionate as hell, good looking, clean, has big brown eyes, and a smile that just makes me get on brick is all bonus. And there's something about his nature that is sharing. I just get a good vibe from him.
4. What is one thing you regret about any of your past relationships? Do you have regrets about them at all?
I promise to answer this question later. This is just way too involved. But yes, THE SEX has had previous relationships. And yes, I have regrets.
5. What happened to the other men in your life (Marcus, James and Chris)? Still see them or not?
Great question.
MARCUS: (who is he?) I am still working on him. I see him in the hallway from time to time. I am going to get him. Just give me some time.
CHRIS: Did you read RETURN OF THE VAMP? I am still toying with him. But I still haven’t fucked him since the first time. So all you guys who said I said I was being an asshole with him—RELAX!
JAMES: Oh my goodness, BBBD JAMES. He and I still haven’t had sex. But there is a story behind it that I have been hesitant to tell the readers of THE SEX. Let’s just say that JAMES and I have seen each other about four times. And we will be seeing each other some more in the future. If he can get his act together...
posted by Bernard Bradshaw at Thursday, February 10, 2005
2 Comments:
Yo what's going on here?
I'm gone all week and there's a new man in your life? Now I have to read all the backstory on Common.
Especially if he and I could be the one ... I have to see wassup with the competition. ;)
Rod
Brotha2Brotha
Kool... I feel like a guest star on SATC... do I get residuals?!?!
Rocka (http://rockaonline.com
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